Facing the Naysayers

So the other evening, I mentioned to Doug's brother Dennis that I would be having abdominal surgery and if he moved back into the front room, I may have to sleep there for a few nights in the recliner.  He asked what the surgery was for and I told him the truth. He's now made it his mission to help me lose weight without surgery. I really do appreciate his concern, and of course, if he comes up with suggestions that seem feasible I'll try them. That being said, my mind is made up on having the surgery. I've done a lot of research, and talked to several people who have had weight loss surgery, and not one person regrets it. I think it's the best option for me to lose weight, keep it off, and reclaim my health.

Additionally, I'm going to Sacred Web circle tonight and I think it's my first time back there since I first mentioned having the surgery and Jessica called it "amputating your stomach", and I got a bit annoyed at what I perceived to be a judgmental comment.  I'm not saying this is for everyone.  I'm just saying that it's something I need and want to do.  I've done A LOT of research and talked with a lot of people, and for me, the benefits far outweigh the risks and restrictions that I'll have to live with for the rest of my life.

I like what Joy replied, when I mentioned all this on 3FC.  "You don't have to justify yourself to anyone. You are the one in charge of your life. It doesn't matter what they think. Just smile politely and say - thank you for your opinion, however I must do what is best for me."  Amen, girlfriend.  Amen.

I'm reading the stories on the forums, hearing peoples' challenges, and triumph, and seeing the progress photos.  I am SO looking forward to having the surgery.  I really hope to lose the remaining 11 pounds by the end of August because I very much want to have my surgery in early November so that I'm able to travel to Nancy's for Christmas.